Three Wedding Don'ts
Three Wedding Dont’s
There are endless To Do lists for your wedding, but what about To Not Do? Amongst all of the things you’re told to do for your wedding day, there’s a few “don’ts” to take into account.
I’m not talking about don’t be late or don’t plan x, y, z. Because lets be real, you probably will be a little late (which is 100% normal) & there are no rules on what you should or shouldn’t be doing for your wedding.
Rather, this quick list is about remembering the sentiment of your celebration & not getting lost in the production of it all. As the wedding industry takes a step away from it’s persistency on over the top decor & focus on publications, more & more couples are leaning into the WHY of their wedding instead of the HOW.
I am constantly encouraging my couples to focus on the feeling of their nuptials—how it translates from the heart. It’s easy to make a pretty day, but it takes intention to have a grounding wedding experience.
With these quick tips, it’s my hope that you’re inspired to move the spotlight from countless “should’s” to meaningful must have’s.
1. Don’t Feel Obligated
You don't have to do, wear, buy anything that is suggested. Especially when it comes to wedding traditions or trends that don't resonate. Stick to the things that light YOU up & that are genuine to who you both are.
Staying true to your desires & not compromising on obligations will ensure that your experience is highlighting your wedding wishes rather than the opinions of others.
2. Don’t Hold Onto Expectations
Odds are, it won’t go exactly how you imagine (which makes it even better). The beauty of your wedding experience lies within unique-to-you moments that are raw & honest.
Unexpected moments are bound to happen, so being aware & grounded will carry you through your happiest day. It’s true that the little hiccups won’t even be remembered in a sea of heartfelt memories.
3. Don’t Forget the Why
When things get stressful, remember why you’re doing all of this: because you’re madly in love with your person. Your wedding is for you—not for the production. Maintaining this perspective will help sort out what is most important for your celebration.
It’s easy to get swept away in all of the “should’s” & or overwhelmed by the To Do List, but at the end of the day, your why is most important than your how.